The Fight - by Jake Hamilton

Learning how to give and receive love is something we were taught way before we met our spouse. We then bring those responses, those reactions into a relationship we were sure would be different. But we all found out quickly that it simply wasn’t the case. This relationship was going to force us to look at ourselves in ways we may have never had to before, it is difficult, but it is worth it! For our sake, for the sake of our marriage, and the sake of our children we’ll unknowingly receive anything we are unwilling to repair.

In this practical intensive we are going to help you:

  • Identify your love style and how you learned it
  • Understand how your love style impacts your spouse
  • Break negative patterns of connection and communication
  • Develop a language that builds trust and security
  • Engage in a sexual strategy that will increase desire and intimacy

Discover what’s possible in this LIVE small group format, online from the comfort of your own home, where you will be encouraged to ask questions and engage in ways that are not possible in large conference settings.

Men must learn how to be men, how to define masculinity and manhood in a way that allows men to walk in courage and confidence while being capable of complete honesty and radical vulnerability. This is going to require more than just a weekend hunting trip or a cheap men’s conference that overpromises with lofty spiritual concepts and under delivers in practical real-life application.

In this intensive we will help you discover:

  • Who you are as a man, a father, a son, a husband, and a friend
  • Why you cycle through anger, lust, bitterness, frustration, anxiety
  • What it means to walk as a king, warrior, priest, and lover
  • How to understand your Hero’s Journey and where you are on the path
  • How to engage with the monster within you, define your shadow and learn to make it your friend

This is more than just a one-day event with a few nice ideas about manhood, this intensive can give you the tools to walk forward with power into your life and pay the cost to own who you are and take responsibility for who you could be.

We want to give you the chance to learn the central tool for everything we do here at TheFIGHT called StoryWork. This will be the first time it will be available to men and women as a LIVE online experience. Your story, your experience, your life is yours to tell and yours to inhabit. We need to explore the story God has given us and the way it impacts us today from our family of origin to current relationships. We have the opportunity to live an “embodied theology” by learning how to practically engage with our experiences and discover how they continue to impact the way we connect today.

In this practical LIVE intensive explore:

  • The impact of our family of origin story and how it influences us today
  • How to create a StoryMap that will help you see the highs and lows of your journey without judgment or justification
  • How to develop a positive self-identity that is courageous and Christ-centered
  • The difference between honesty, transparency, and vulnerability
  • How to accurately assess and communicate our emotions
  • How to help others to explore their story through the art of curious questions

This tool will transform how you see yourself and others in your daily life. Every trigger becomes an invitation to growth and each interaction with another person is an opportunity to offer the care and containment you may have never received for yourself. We will show you how it works in your home first than beyond into the lives of those in your community.

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