YOU'RE NOT CRAZY
You’re Here Because Something Feels Off, and You’re Right
On the outside, he looks fine. He’s doing what a man’s “supposed” to do—working, showing up, keeping it together. But you feel it. The distance. The silence. The sense that something’s missing.
You’ve carried the weight—trying to hold it all together for your marriage, your kids, your home. Maybe you’ve prayed, cried, hoped, and wondered, “Is this just how it is?”
We know that ache. Nicci watched Jake shut down, bury his emotions, and hide behind performance. What changed him wasn’t a lecture—it was facing his pain and choosing to fight for something more.
That’s why we built The FIGHT. A place where men reclaim their identity, restore connection, and learn how to lead with courage and compassion.
Inside The Arena, your husband will find a tribe of men, honest courses, weekly live calls, and tools that help him grow—not just for himself, but for you and your family.
If you’re reading this, you’re already fighting for him. Now he has a place to fight too.
We built this for him.
But we built it for you, too.
Give the gift that says I see you and still believe in you.
Below we’ve created a way for you to start the conversation.
Here is the Scripted Text to send to your husband.
I love you. I am here for you and for us. I am not going anywhere, but we must work on what we have if we want to last. I see your pain and frustration, and I wish there was more I could do about it to heal the wounds I didn’t cause in your life and even some that I did. I found this resource for men, and I am simply asking you to check it out for us. I know that this is hard right now, but I don’t believe it has to be this way forever. I love you. https://thisisthefight.com
