Men are told anger is dangerous. And it is — when left unchecked. But the solution is not to kill your fire. It is to master it.

Aggression is not the same as anger. Anger lashes out. Aggression aims forward. Anger burns down. Aggression builds.

Tools like ShadowWork Integration help men trace their rage to its root — often shame, grief, or fear — and reclaim the part of themselves that anger was hiding.

Because your family doesn’t need a man without fire. They need a man who knows how to wield it.