We all do it.

We say “I’m fine” when we’re not.
We say “I’ve got this” when we’re barely holding it together.
We pretend everything’s working—while inside, we’re quietly falling apart.

But here’s the thing: You can’t transform what you’re still lying about.

Self-Deception is Survival—Until It’s a Prison

Men lie to themselves because it buys them time.
But it also costs them freedom.

You can’t build a better life if the foundation is false.
You can’t lead others if you’re lost in your own illusion.

“The soul waits in truth. It does not follow you into fantasy.” – Robert Bly (paraphrased)

The Mirror is Mercy

It’s not shameful to tell the truth. It’s sacred.
You’re not behind—you’re just hiding.
And the man you were made to become? He’s not found in fantasy. He’s waiting for you in reality.

So look in the mirror.
Say what needs to be said.
And get free.

Weekly Challenge

  1. Write down one lie you’ve been telling yourself.
  2. Tell that truth to a brother.
  3. Live this week like truth is the only option.

Stop lying to yourself. That’s where everything changes.